Are you serious about finding out how to get your man back after a breakup? If so, then it’s time to stop following your heart and start listening to your head. It really is pretty easy.

  • You want to meet with him face to face and pour your heart out explaining how sorry you are. You may want to spill all your emotions out on the table by telling him how much you love and miss him. It’s going to take a lot more than you begging and pleading to get your man back. You need a plan, one guaranteed to work.
  • So let’s take a look. Your heart is saying go chase him down and make him listen to what you have to say. Your heart also says if you tell him how much you love and miss him, he will understand and take you back. Well, your heart would be wrong!
  • Instead of taking the desperate heart-felt approach, you need to slow down, take a step back, and start listening to your head. So this means no calls, and no accidental running into him where you know he’s going to be. In other words, No Contact.
  • If you keep trying to contact and talk to him you will make yourself look desperate and in return drive him further away. Now is the time to make yourself invisible. Don’t be seen, do not be heard. Let him wonder and perhaps worry how you are and what you have been up to.
  • If you’re stuck with a problem and the first person you would usually call is your ex, then you’re going to have to figure out how to solve that problem yourself. Not only does this improve your standing with your ex, it will prove you can get by your own.